Fishing – It’s All About You


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Fishing – It’s All About You

Do you remember when you first started fishing as a kid? What gave you that unmistakable buzz? Maybe it was the knock of a float, the subtle tap on a quiver tip, or—if you’re as old as I am—that magical moment when a swing tip gently moved. That was it. Pure excitement. No pressure, no expectations—just you, the water, and the thrill of a bite.

Over time, many anglers lose touch with that feeling. Some fall out of love with fishing completely or become disillusioned with modern methods. They get stuck in the past or distracted by what everyone else is doing—comparing catches, chasing social media likes, or feeling like they always have to “perform” on the bank. But here’s the truth: none of that really matters.

Remember why you really started fishing. It wasn’t about out-catching your mates or chasing monsters. It was about being outside, sharing laughs with a friend, and maybe catching a few along the way. And if you were lucky, you’d head home grinning, reliving those little moments for days after.

Too often now, anglers become obsessed with catching every time they go. They forget the simple joy—the anticipation, the peace, the connection to nature. Yes, times have changed. Maybe things were better back then. Fewer people, more respect on the bank. But the world has moved on, and we can’t change that. What we can change is how we respond to it.

Don’t let the noise ruin your fishing. Shut it out. Tune back into what made you fall in love with it in the first place. That buzz is still there. It hasn’t disappeared—it’s just buried under life’s pressures and the weight of unrealistic expectations. Dig a little, and you’ll find it again.

And when you do, that first knock of the day or a single bleep from your alarm will hit differently. It’ll feel like magic. Being outdoors, immersed in nature, does wonders for your health—mental and physical. For me, carp fishing is the therapy I never knew I needed. Spending a few days on the bank resets everything. Closing the lake gate behind me feels like leaving the world’s chaos behind. And let’s be honest, with the news as grim as it often is, we need that escape more than ever.

I’ll admit, I used to be obsessed with must catch thinking. I’d chase target carp around the country, get frustrated if it had been caught already, and jump from lake to lake. It took a toll. Eventually, I realised something had to change.

These days, I still have that fire to catch, but it’s no longer the be-all and end-all. Now it’s about being there—soaking in the moment, listening to the birds, watching the water, and appreciating the beauty around me. Funny thing is, the more I’ve let go of the pressure, the more I’ve actually caught. It’s like being in tune with nature makes me a better angler.

It’s been over twenty years since I made that shift, and I genuinely believe it’s made me a better fisherman. I still log all my catches and take plenty of photos—I’ve always loved documenting it all. That’s how my website came to life. It was easier than scribbling in a notebook (especially with my handwriting!) and gave me the chance to tell stories, share photos, and even add videos.

Whether I’m by a lake or a river, I go to enjoy myself. The fish are a bonus. Yes, you still need to work at it—tweak your rigs, read the water, observe fish behaviour—but when you’re truly connected to your surroundings, everything just clicks into place more naturally.

The key message is this: focus on your fishing. Not anyone else’s. You have no idea why the angler in the next swim is there. Maybe they’ve had a brutal week and just want some quiet time. Maybe they’re just there for a social. When I go on social trips, I don’t fish as hard either—because that’s not the point.

I even wrote a piece about this called Why Compare Yourself to Others? Because it’s true—comparison steals joy. And in fishing, your only competition should be with yourself.

This is your fishing. Your time. Only you know why you’re there and what you want to achieve. And that’s all that matters.

So remember—really remember—why you fell in love with fishing. The buzz, the peace, the laughs, the adventure. It’s all still there.

Until next time,
Richard

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My Fishing Mindset


I’ve been carp fishing since 1981. Like most, I spent the first few years just trying to get to grips with it all, learning through trial and error. It wasn’t until around 1984 that everything finally clicked into place—and that’s when the real obsession with carp fishing began.

My angling journey actually started much earlier, around 1974, fishing in ponds, rivers, and the Norfolk Broads. I even fished Llandrindod Wells Carp Lake, which was a turning point for me. That’s where I truly discovered carp—the power, the fight, and what set them apart from anything else I’d caught before. From that moment on, I was hooked.

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Over the years, I moved between countless venues, always trying to learn more, to understand more. I wanted to absorb as much knowledge as I possibly could. Looking back, it mirrored my approach in the shipping industry, where I also started working in 1981. I moved through different roles, constantly learning, constantly evolving. Whether it was fishing or work, I’ve always had that need to understand every aspect as deeply as possible.

As my experience grew, I began targeting specific carp on specific waters. That phase of my fishing lasted many years and brought a lot of satisfaction. In 1997, I moved to Hampshire with work, which opened up even more opportunities. With progression in my career—and, if I’m honest, the financial rewards that came with it—I was able to join more clubs and syndicates, travelling between them in pursuit of particular fish.

But over time, something changed. The number of anglers increased, and the values and etiquette I’d grown up with started to fade. The atmosphere shifted, and with it came a level of aggravation I simply didn’t want. I’ve never fished to compete with others—I fish to enjoy it, to switch off. Eventually, I realised I needed to step away from that environment.

That’s when I turned to the rivers, seeking solitude and space away from the crowds. Around the same time, I made a conscious decision to limit my memberships. Where once I’d spread myself across multiple clubs and syndicates, I reduced it down to just a couple. That change alone made a huge difference.

Somewhere along that journey, I was introduced to the Airfield Lake syndicate—and that truly reignited my passion. It turned out to be exactly what I’d been missing. A group of like-minded anglers, all respecting each other, all fishing in the right way. I’ve now been a member there for over ten years, which is unusual for me, as I’d typically move on after five. But this place is different. It’s the people, the atmosphere, the unwritten understanding between anglers. There’s no ego, no one-upmanship—just mutual respect.

I come from an era where information was closely guarded. You’d be asked to leave a swim if you cast into someone’s water, and no one would give anything away. That was just how it was. But here, things feel more balanced—still respectful, but without the tension.

These days, my mindset has completely changed. There’s no rush anymore. Just catching a carp—any carp—is an achievement. You’re not competing against other anglers; you’re up against the fish. It probably took me five years to truly adopt that way of thinking, but once I did, it transformed everything.

I started focusing on what I love most about fishing. For me, it’s the anticipation. Even now, I still don’t sleep properly the night before a session—or even the first night on the bank. That sense of expectation never leaves you. Then the moment comes—the buzzer sounds. Whether it’s a subtle drop-back or a full-on screaming run, your heart kicks in. You’re connected to the fish, adrenaline flowing, fully in the moment. You’re thinking everything and nothing at the same time—“don’t lose this one,” or simply reacting to the power on the end.

Then it rolls into the net, and there’s that instant release—that deep breath of relief.

And at that point, does the size really matter?

That fish picked up your bait. You outwitted it. Your watercraft, your baiting, your decision-making—all of it came together in that moment. That’s something to be proud of, regardless of the weight.

But fishing is more than just the capture. Sitting quietly in nature, surrounded by wildlife, is something else entirely. It’s good for the soul, the mind, and the body. These days, when I close the gate behind me at the lake, I leave the rest of the world outside. For a couple of days each week, it’s just me, the water, and whatever comes with it—and that’s priceless.

As I sit here writing this on the bank, I’m watching birds picking insects from the trees, listening to their calls—and the unmistakable sound of a cuckoo in the distance. Yes, fishing is about catching carp, but it’s not only about that.

There’s also the social side. The camaraderie among like-minded anglers is something special. It’s not quite a tight-knit family, as people come and go, moving between waters—but there’s an unspoken bond, a shared understanding. It’s just part of the angling life, and it works.

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Right now, my mindset towards fishing is the best it’s ever been—and that carries over into my day-to-day life as well. There’s a balance now that perhaps took me years to find.

I hope this gives some insight into how important mindset can be in fishing—and how much more rewarding it becomes when you find the right one.

Until next time,
Richard

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